I send people away because attachment happens both ways.
Marriage is more attachment. You need more devotion and discipline to have union with God when you are married.
This world is all attachment. Yet you get worried because you are attached.
For a sadhu to stay in one place means trouble. A moving yogi, and a moving river... impurities and sediments and filth can never settle there. If I stay here, attachment will form.
Lust, Greed, Anger, Attachment – These are all paths to hell.
Temples are but piles of stones. Attachment holds you back.
If you are free of attachment, you will lead a simple life in a simple environment.