If you want to see how enlightened you are, go spend a week with your family.
If you think you're enlightened go spend a week with your family.
When you see the beloved all around you, everyone is family and everywhere is love.
When you get old, everything changes - your body changes, your family changes. You can't do what you've always done, anymore. And, either you can complain about things changing - or you can be content. Instead of complaining, you can say: "Oh, yesss! Look at all this change!" You can welcome it.