If you have patience, then you'll also have love. Patience leads to love.
Meditation increases your vitality and strengthens your intelligence... your mental clarity and health improve. You acquire the patience and fortitude to face any problem in life. So, meditate! Only through meditation will you find the treasure you are seeking.
Keep a constant awareness and a conscious effort to say good words, perform good actions, and to practice patience and compassion.
No one becomes pure and selfless overnight; it involves time and concentrated effort, coupled with tremendous patience and love.
Progress can be slow and gradual. Continue putting in effort with patience, enthusiasm and faith.