When awareness expands, events that seem random actually aren't. A larger purpose is trying to unfold through you. When you become aware of that purpose- which is unique for each person- you become like an architect who has been handed the blueprint.
When you expand your awareness, seemingly random events will be seen to fit into a larger purpose.
The purpose of life is the expansion of happiness.
Words can wound or heal. The purpose of speech must always be to create joy in the listener.