Follow the instructions of authentic scriptures like the Bible, Torah, Quran, Vedas, Upanishads, Patanjali's Yoga Sutra, and Brahmasutra. Truth will lead you to your goal.
The reality is within. A true seeker is one who is seeking to find the reality and truth from within. Such sincere seekers are rare.
Who am I? From where did I come? Who is my father? Who is my mother? Ask yourself these questions again and again to find the truth. You will see that this world is transitory, like a dream.